"Please stop being Gay, this is bad for your soul, your are (well I think you mean 'you are', but whatever) going straigth (I think you mean straight) to hell. God loves you"... WOW. Yeah, doesn't sound like a "loving God" to me. Sounds like some self-serving humanistic nonsense. You should try being yourself instead of God for a while, I don't think God would appreciate you talking to one of his children like that, nor do I think you write well enough to consider your words divinely inspired.

To # 26, what the hell do you think a Rabbi means you insenstive indiot ! Have respect for a man of God. Would you say that to a Minister or a Priest . In case you did not know, Jesus was called Rabbi by many who sought after "his" wisdom for advice.

who the hell said anything about this person being gay? what in the hell does that matter? if you're catholic, christian, jewish, lutheran, whatever! god loves every soul that devotes his/her self to his principles and beliefs. whatever this person is asking for is simple guidance. what do i do? how much do i let this person know? all i know is that i have been burned very badly by not asking these very important questions in advance. you should all quit being bigggots and try and remember that we're all here for the same reason.

Wow! If the religious community could reign in the preaching of hatred and judgments, then they would take better strides in gaining unity in a very fractal faith system. For instance, stop getting caught molesting underage congregation members. Big steps are always followed by the little ones. This inspirational message brought to you by the letter 'P'. ~A Pagan

theres nothing wrong with being gay and its not a mental sickness jerks. you cant even spell.

life is short. i have not always lived by this, but our purpose in life, during the short years we have, is to honor christ. maybe god blesses with a mate, maybe he doesn't. a lot of the disciples were so busy being persecuted, they never had time for much of a family life. we have been fortunate to live in a better society than the one christ lived in, and have some measure of freedom to honor him.

Wow, what he just said is very true. If you trust your self to love again, you can trust your self to be honest & open with him. Most guy like it when we share our deep feelings & emotions with them, so try it. You will thank your self later for it & good luck to you and your new found love. :)

sounds like good advise

Assertively say what you feel, don't soak up attention from it, deal with it, and move on to the happy parts of the relationship.

Whoa, Rabbi, in today's real world, you do not tell a guy you love him after two months. What you should be telling a woman who's been cheated on before is that she needs to hold in mind that there is someone for her who will be faithful. She has to believe this. I totally get it about not wanting to waste time, especially because there are so many players out there, but, if the woman believes she deserves to be respected, she has a greater chance of attracting that respect. This woman can ask the guy what things he values about a relationship and maybe get some insight. She shouldn't ask how he feels about anything, because guys HATE that. She should ask what he thinks instead, but not too often. I had a lot of unsuccessful relationships, but finally met the love of my life. Funny thing, I'm the love of his life as well.