Trying something new is interesting, but you can't try BE-ing. You are or you aren't. If she's feminine, ask her if she'd try BE-ing butch for a while. Or vice versa -- ask a tomboy to be uber girly. It should make her think. If it doesn't, that should make YOU think!

Here's a tip that men can either accept or deny. Women are a lot like men. We want to see you in every element. We want to see you in the suit, in the gym, just jeans, or even completely a mess! We want a man that can be everything all at once with a flip of a switch. Men want a woman who can not only dress especially to their taste but is willing. Is this not the ultimate form of flattery? Men want women to wear not only the apron but the leather as well. Why is it impossible for some men to be unwilling to wear both hats at times? Granted, I too am weak for the occasional suit. But, when a woman works in a business where all that surrounds her is one suit after another it would be so nice to see a man in torn old jeans and T-shirt. Women want subtle doses of what we are not used to. We are not that hard to figure out. If you give us what we want then you will get what you want X2 in return. If your not willing to change up your character every once in a while then women grow bored as well. Jeans are just as sexy as any suit. It just depends on how they are worn and who is in them.

I don't want to date a metrosexual man but I don't want a guy who is so sloppy he has to wipe BBQ sauce off his cheeks. I think there is a way for guys to care about their appearance without going obessively overboard. It's about finding that middle ground.

I'll take a man who arrives home in Carhartts and then changes into slacks and a striped button-down anytime!

Sounds like the woman wants to play with Barbi. The man should buy here a pony! That should solve the problem.

Well this would be a interesting question asked in such a normal setting. I would think something like this would be asked during a moment of intimate cuddlling. Yet, I would look into those eyes of my mate and see if she is pulling my leg or serious. My answer would be if you like me to shave my chest hair I'd say cool but live with the fur that will the end results. as far as dressing up in female attire I'd look into those eyes of her s and tell her I love her and would give the world however, this is out of bounds by my culture and conservative maaner. I would remind her of the metro things I do with her already shopping with and for her, having feelings talk as open as the mouth of a river. She will smile and say thank-you baby.

The long hair and earring are as feminine as I want to get as far as my physical appearance. I do not wish to be feminine, I wish to be me. If my partner cannot understand that, then she does not know me. Ask her to shave her head and wear a fake mustache for you. Of course if she does, you are screwed and need to capitulate!

Right on #7, Tony! You hit hit the nail on the head. You understand what is going on here and your answer made me laugh. But is was correct.