lookin for someone thats could love me

what if you do all the little things and make time and your girl still push you away but find time to talk on the phone with her friends

wish i read this 2 years ago when my relationship with my Ex could have been saved. We both had conflicting schedules and never made the time for each other to make it work.

My way or the highway. If your job is on the line, your "significant other" should be cognizant of that and make things EASIER on you, not harder. One should question their motives and their need to have you more available and at their convenience. If they've got tons of money and looks to kill, I'll make an exception. Other than that it's MY way or the HIGHWAY. Keep it pithy.

but is your job REALLY one the line? i SERIOUSLY doubt it. sometimes we take work schedules BEFORE we meet our partners, not knowing that later, it can be a problem. i can understand it if the change is TEMPORARY, but if there is some way to make your relationship easier, and that YOU'RE in charge of, like changing your work schedule, then do it! trust me, your partner would be greateful for it, and will show it to you in many ways! as it stands, they are probably doing EVERYTHING they can on THEIR end to make things easier on the two of you. so stop being a jerkoff and give a lil! pulling a "my way or the highway" attitude, will just keep you alone. which in your case, would probably be good. heh......and if your girl is pushing you away, she's upset about something and wants you to read her mind and fix it. since you're probably NOT a mind reader, the best thing to do would be to sit down and ask what's up. or talk to her friends. there's probably a chance she wants out, but isn't woman enough to stand up and tell you that.

female here-just lost a relationship,to a significant other, of almost going on 4 years due to my work hours/job--to me the relationship superceeds the work hours or the job. Whats more important? Apparently I wasn't loved enough,because he gave up the relationship,due to the fact I had a job and made money??He wanted me to find a different job with different hours and weekends off. If I had no job and no money,then I be tagged a s a loser.What gives??Cant win for losing............relationships are too complicated in today's world,and sometimes no worth the effort.So here I am single again,but my heart is still with him,,,,,,,,,,even though he totally ignores me.