Interesting..........

Most of us are single because we have shut ourselves off from the outside for one reason or another. A lot of this advice does not make sense for someone who has no real friends they can invite to do make overs etc. Some of us are single parents with not much time on our hands to join a club or we probably would not be single in the first place s strile two. Finally, I really don't think it is flattering for a woman to go around saying hello to men no matter how things change. Sorry I am very old school but the rest of the stuff is marvelous! Thanks

Diana, I finally figured out what the hell is going on here... you cant use quotation marks. So Ill rewrite this save the quotes Oh Diana, this article is well written and inspiring to most but you fail to recognize one important detail, When it comes to attracting the oppisite sex ,you either got it or you dont,period.We all emit a specific hormonal odor known as Phermones,that is unique to us like our DNA.Certain individuals are drawn in by these phermones which constitutes sexual attraction or what some of us call Chemistry. For some of us,or maybe I should speak for myself,those phermones dont attract anybody. When it comes to attracting women I have always been the Invisible Man. Sure I have many female friends and married or attached women will claim that I am attractive but they have nothing to lose,no fear of being persued so theyll say anything to boost my confidence. But for the 654,987 available women I have approached...Nothing.Sometimes no matter what you do you can only get so far before you realize this is as far as you can go.I played for 7 years in the Minors, batted .360 lifetime and played an entire season only commiting 4 errors at shortstop...and I never made it to the Majors. That was as far as I could go. When it comes to dating I realize Ill never make it to the Big Leagues so... theres really no point to come up to bat. And Im allright with that.

I agree with this article. I think you have to take a risk, and keep taking a risk in order to meet someone of quality if the traditional methods are not working. I did a makeover on my best friend and she did some things on her own as well. She always had a great personality, but after we both worked on her exterior...she went from someone who most people wouldn't notice to a head turner. Her exterior became as beutiful as her interior. Guys and girls, ask your best friends to help you out-good suggestion!

I can only speak for myself but I agree that I think that love is the number one most important thing in life and spent probably 20 min. a week trying to meet a man. This article has given me some great tips to meeting new people...if I am not trying how can it happen? Our culture is so romantisized and infatuated with the saying that when you are not looking for love this is when it will happen. I believe that nothing just falls in your lap, you have to work for it. Thanks

i agree with this mater but wene you work alot and are raisen kids with no help. its hard to do . But I beleave people should spend more time looking and take more chances in this case! and not be so optimistic .And be opened minded.And safe at the same time.

First, I do not know why they could not make a message board that you could use apostrophes without them coming out as ' They are in the article. Second, if you want to meet somebody, you have to say something to them. If a woman wants to meet a particular man, if they do not in some way let them know they are at least interested, there's not much left to bring him over to you than how you look. Women can be so charming and out going when they want something or need a favor. Yet when it comes to meeting somebody, they freeze up and the ego gets the best of them and they take a stance of not letting him know I'm interested until he shows he's interested first. A truly nice guy may not make a first move because with all the game playing, he might be cynical. People also get too caught up in having to go to a place to meet somebody, or meeting somebody when you go out. Meet them where you meet them. Any place you go is a place to meet somebody. It's not that technical. But apparently, apostrophes and quote marks are super technical.

Diana, this article interest me most. I have been disappointed by a man that i love and the first love of my life. I have been in relationshiop with him for good 10 years. All he could tell me that he doesn't want me again that is all over between both of us. Without no reason. Please kindly advice me on what to do. I want to let it go but i find with every diffcuilt to do it.

it's true that a risk has to be taken in order to find that one person that you want to share your life with.So come on ladies,I do not bite,but I'm looking for an unconditional love and will give that in return.

yes I do agree that love is the most important thing in this world: I meet my beautyful wife on the net. she is the most important person in my life. so love is important I belive to everyone. so dont give up.