What is more difficult than starting a conversation with a complete stranger?

While you mull over possible answers to that question, here are some other questions you should have no trouble answering. They're the "Tell Me About" questions you'll find attached to many profiles.

Look for the "Tell Me About" tab at the top of the profile detail page.

When you click it, you'll find some questions the profile writer suggests you answer when you write to him or her. They're the sort of questions you might use to break the ice during a first meeting with someone: Your favorite musicians, the funniest thing that's ever happened to you, your favorite outdoor activity, etc.

Whatever questions the person selected, answering them will make it easy to strike up a conversation - certainly much easier than having to write, "Hey, I like your smile, let's talk."

The best way to get a response from someone you want to meet is to ask them about what they've written in their profile. To get the conversation going, answer one of their "Tell Me About" questions, then ask them a question. Here's what works best, says Evan Marc Katz:

(See all of Katz' email success tips.)

That's all there is to it. Toss back a question they'll enjoy answering, and you'll be halfway down the road to a good conversation. And while you're waiting for them to answer, select some "Tell Me About" questions for your own profile. Make it easier for someone who wants to spark a conversation with you.

Here are the 16 "Tell Me About" questions. You may select three for your profile. Just to keep things interesting, switch out the questions in your profile from time to time.