Sandra, he's likely testing you alright -- not to see if you're a prude, but to let you know that he hopes you will be sexual with him. Sounds like he's not as darling as you first thought and has ulterior motives. I'd let him know in no uncertain terms that if there is going to be a relationship, it's going to be slow and easy at the beginning. I'll bet you won't hear from him after that. I could be wrong. Relationships that develop quickly when the two people have never met are iffy to begin with. Sounds like he's a player. Be careful.

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