Dating Tips: 6 Phrases Men Love to Hear
Compliments that will leave him glowing
By dating editor Sarah Harrison for YourTango.com Photo: Getty Images Updated: Nov 3, 2009
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Whether
you're starting a new relationship or already married, there are some
things that don't change, like the need to feel attractive,
appreciated, and wanted. And it's not just women who want these things
-- men do too! Below are things you can say to a man, at any
stage of your love life, that will
leave him glowing.
#1. You look great.Men
have insecurities, just like women. And whether he shows it or not,
sometimes he's wondering if his shirt looks better tucked in or out, or
if his belly is sticking out a little too far over his belt. This is an
especially good compliment if he's been going to the gym -- why do you
think he's doing all that working out?
#2. I love it when you [insert action].This
is one that can benefit you as much as him. Men are the traditional
initiators, and even if your man isn't the one to make the first move,
chances are he sometimes feels like he should. If you don't tell him
what you like, he's just flying blind. In fact, if you haven't
complimented him he might even think you don't like what he's doing.
And of course, the more you tell him you love it when he massages your
neck or warmly hugs you, the more he'll do it.
#3. That woman just checked you out.Yes,
this helps his self-confidence, but it also tells him that you just saw
another woman looking at him and you're not afraid to tell him. It
shows that you're confident enough to know that he won't be lured away
by another gal. Plus, what guy can resist the thought that women are
giving him the once-over?
#4. You're right.We
all like to be right, men included. And you know what? Sometimes they
are. It probably happens less often than he thinks, but when he is
right, it's nice to tell him, especially if you were arguing. Sure, it
might make you feel a little sheepish, but it's worth it in the end.
It'll make him feel good, and showing that you're a reasonable creature
who can admit when you're wrong will help temper future
disagreements.
#5. Will you help me unscrew this?Men
like to feel manly. It might not be PC, but it's ingrained in our
culture. Helping women with simple tasks makes them feel macho and
noble. We're not saying you should ask him to do things you can easily
do yourself, but if you do need assistance, it's a little ego-booster
he'll be happy to accept.
#6. You're not going bald.About
one-quarter of men start losing their hair at age 25 and two-thirds
have begun balding by 60. Losing his locks is one of a man's greatest
fears. So even if he is getting a bit naked up top, tell him he's not.
It's the male equivalent of "Do these jeans make me look fat?" No,
honey, of course not.
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