Dating Advice: 4 Reasons to Date the Unemployed
Seeking singles to date? Don't exclude those recently laid off.
By dating editor Jed Mellick for YourTango.com Photo: iStockphoto.com/© Jacob Wackerhausen Updated: Jul 29, 2009
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Historically
when a woman found out a man she wanted to date was
unemployed, she would go running for the hills. But
these days, with the recession affecting people in all professions,
many recently laid-off single men may
actually make very promising boyfriends. Chances are high that these
men worked in law, banking, or another field that requires a decent
amount of education, intelligence, and motivation. They deserve some
compassion.
More on Dating From YourTango:While
these men may fall into the dreaded unemployed category, they are still
desirable, and maybe even more desirable than men who still have jobs.
Here are four reasons why starting to date someone who's been laid off
can actually be better than someone who has to go to work every
day.
Reason
#1. He'll have more time to think about you. He should
be able to come up with many fun and interesting (and cheap!) dates for
the two of you as you explore your budding relationship.
Reason
#2. He'll work out more and actually lose the extra
weight he gained from sitting in an office all day.
Reason
#3. He'll take up exciting hobbies like cooking or
playing music, something he's always wanted to do, and something that
will benefit you.
Reason
#4. He'll write that book he's always thought about
and end up a famous author. You'll have been the one who supported his
dream from the beginning (and get to enjoy his royalty checks with
him)!
So while the jobless usually get
the short end of the stick from single women when it
comes to starting a relationship, in these tough times no one can
afford to be too picky. Don't overly judge a man by his work status and
remember these dating benefits when his unemployment runs out in six to
nine months!
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