Fascinating Facts About Successful Single Men
Here's the scoop on where they hang, what they do for a living, and the kind of mates they make.
By Victoria Lucia for Cosmopolitan
Photo: Asha Fuller
Updated: May 22, 2009
Dating
a loaded guy has long been a fantasy for some
single
women. In fact, your own mother may have even quipped that it's just as
easy to fall for a wealthy man as it is a poor one. And high-income,
single
men (those earning $104,000 and up, as defined by the Tax
Foundation Group in Washington, DC) are on our radar even more thanks
to such shows as "The Hills", "Gossip Girl," and "The Millionaire
Matchmaker."
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Plus,
statistically, affluent men are on the rise. According to the 2007
Wealth Report, there are more richies in the world than ever:

9.5 million people
are earning at least $1 million annually
9.5 million people
are earning at least $1 million annually, and 94,970
are pulling in at least $30 million each year. Here's the lowdown on
dudes with mad bank.
Many Well-Off Men Aren't Making Money the Old-Fashioned WayIn
the past, you would expect ambitious moneymakers to be MBA holders
firmly entrenched in the financial world. "These days, though many
young guys work for big-risk, big-reward hedge funds, more and more are
successfully combining their creativity with their technological
savvy," says Haitao Li, PhD, professor of finance at the University of
Michigan. Here are some high-profile wealthy Web
entrepreneurs.
- Mark Zuckerberg, 23, founder of Facebook...$1.5 billion
- Andrew Gower, 29, founder of Runescape...$216 million
- Chad Hurley, 30, cofounder of You Tube...$300 million
- Andrew Michael, 29, founder of FastHosts...$87 million
You'll Find Them at Hotel Bars and Upscale Steak Houses"When
rich guys travel, they stay at posh hotels because they expect the best
of everything," says Janis Spindel, matchmaker for wealthy
professionals. And at dinner, they don't settle for anything less than
grade-A beef, so four-star steak houses are prime ground for
high-powered business types. Before sitting down to rack up the bill
(on the company expense account, of course), they'll probably hit the
bar first.
They Live in Some Surprising PlacesThe
research firm Teasley ranked the following United States cities as
having the best ratio of rich,
single men to women.
- San Francisco Bay Area, California
- Anchorage, Alaska
- Washington, D.C./Baltimore, Maryland
- Sheboygan, Wisconsin
- Naples, Florida
- Minneapolis/Saint Paul, Minnesota
- Rochester, Minnesota
- Boston, Massachusetts
- Fort Walton Beach, Florida
- Dallas, Texas
They Have Gold-Digger RadarMost
people want to be loved for who they are, not what they do. And that
includes wealthy men. "Gold diggers do not give off a cute vibe," says
one successful 27-year-old investment banker. "They feign interest in
your profession, only hang around when you're headed to the most
exclusive restaurant or club, and then often invite nine of their
closest friends to tag along."
They Feel Entitled to Arm Candy...Yeah,
it may sound shallow, but according to Donna Spangler, author of "How
to Get a Rich Man", cashed-up guys think they deserve to be with trophy
women, or women they deem prizeworthy. Says Spangler: "They want you to
be extremely beautiful, be able to plan social schedules, and have good
manners."
...But They Don't Want to Marry a Dummy EitherEighty-nine
percent of high-achieving (and presumably high-earning) men report that
they marry or would like to marry a woman who is just as or more
intelligent than they are, says Christine Whelan, PhD, author of
"
Why
Smart Men Marry Smart Women." Also,

92 percent of men who describe
themselves as "successful" or "very successful" say they are more
attracted to women who are also excelling in their
careers.
92 percent of men who describe
themselves as "successful" or "very successful" say they are more
attracted to women who are also excelling in their
careers. Go you.
Brunettes Pull More Cash-Flush DudesBlond
is reputed to be the most alluring hair color, but according to a
survey by Lycos, 62 percent of the world's top 100 billionaires' wives
and girlfriends are brunettes. What's still unclear: whether these rich
men seek out darker-haired women or if there are just more of them out
there (fair hair is rarer).
They Pony Up, So to SpeakPolo
Ralph Lauren is the brand most likely to be purchased by wealthy male
shoppers when buying goodies for themselves. The rest of the list
includes Calvin Klein, Armani, Coach, and Burberry.
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