This is all accurate.

"This is all acurate"? Please, I guess you can't even notice the complete paradox point #1 starts with. "Women are emotional beings and tend to think things through". Well David, which is it? Feel or think? Regardless, it's all BS. Just act natural, don't be intimidated and you'll be fine. Don't try to be confident, don't try to make a point of revealing something about yourself, don't pretend to be something you're not by listening to some douchebag's advice. In the end when you make yourself out to be someone you're not you'll get cought in a web of trying to preempt the next move and eventually you'll guess wrong. You'll also seem like a robot who's calculating and manipulative which is not very romantic. Has anyone had a friend or acquintance who was a pathological liar? As consistant as they try to be with their lies eventually you can spot the lie and once you notice it once, you'll start to see it time and again because you're looking for it. Don't try to be something you're not. Eventually you'll be found out.

ok i been honest the whole time, and respectful to her mom and everyone but what i dont get is, is it good or bad if she wont let me pay for movie tickets and food?? cause i am feeling somewhat bad cause i couldnt pay. wat should i do?

David, which planet are you from ? Mars or Venus ? You sound an awful lot like a woman trying to be a man. What I hear or read from women is "no games please" If a man is doing what you say just to get a woman then he is playing a game and games always have winners and loosers. I say start right out being yourself and if she likes you now then she will still like you in six months when your still just you.

David, what planet are you from? Mars or Venus? you sound an awful lot like a woman trying to be a man. What I hear or read from women is "no games please". If a man is doing all these things just to get the woman then he is playing games and all games have loosers. I say just be yourself right from the beginning and if she likes you now then in six months (when the game should be over) she will still like you.

There are no such thing as the men you are discribing. But it's a nice fairy tale. And they lived happily ever after! Ya, right!

Yeah I agree except about the ex thing- you can tell me (once) you had one but I don't want to know WHAT you did. My current boyfriend used to tell me all the time about his 4 exs how they were horrible but he learned things and I always got really jealous and it made me sick to hear how far he went with them.

did anyone else notice how david kept using the terms "turn on" and "turn off" as if all these charm-tactics were just to get into a woman's pants? i mean using these tactics as a way to sleep with someone is very sleazy, and shows women that all you want is a totaly physical relationship. ugh.

"i mean using these tactics as a way to sleep with someone is very sleazy, and shows women that all you want is a totaly physical relationship. ugh." Are you serious? Using the term "turn on" and "turn off" is often much more than just about sex. Honestly. A turn on could be his abs, sure, but it could also be his sense of humor and the way her always opens the door for you. A turn off could be his smoking habit, or his hot-headed temper. I think you should be the one to get your head of the gutter. And as for the controversial nature of all of these How To articles, its because women are very controversial creatures. We want to be independent, but still be needed. We want to stand on our own feet, but be able to collapse into our chosen Prince's arms at any time. We want to pay for everything, but have the offer refused and watch you pay instead. Its just how we are. We think into things a billion times more than we should, but just as often do emotional things or react emotionally on instinct. It just happens. Over all I agree with this article. I feel like it makes a couple of valid points, and if a guy liked this appraoched me, I'd be very pleased. But I might also think that he was too good to be true. Everyone has a fault or two you know, so don't live or day by these rules. Controversially yours

Sounds to good to be true. Even some of your advice followed would be wonderful.