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Puzzled by the Common Male? Take This Quiz
By Male Call
MercuryNews.com
Updated: Mar 31, 2008
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Question: I've been out with a guy a few times but not really on dates. It's always been with a group of people. But we really seem to hit it off, and he pays a lot of attention to me during those get-togethers. After the last one, he emailed to say what a great time he had and that we should do it again. Is he asking me out? Is he interested or just being polite? -- Confused
Answer: Yes, men can be confusing. One minute they want to have sex with you, and the next they ... well, they still want to have sex with you. OK, bad example. But there are indeed times when a guy's behavior can be inexplicable, which is why we put together a little multiple-choice quiz to help you decipher the intricate workings of the male mind. Why the quiz? Because we believe in the Socratic method of learning. Mainly the togas.
He seems interested during group dates, and he emails afterward to say what a great time he had.
What is he thinking?
What is he thinking?
What is he thinking? A.) He figures if he cultivates your friendship, he'll be invited on more group outings so he can hit on your very hot friend. Clever, albeit in a Machiavellian sort of way. But maybe you're into that sort of thing!
B.) He always wants to be prepared (former Boy Scout, natch), so he has many irons in the fire -- by which we mean women with whom he's flirted just enough to slightly bedazzle -- in case he some day finds himself without a date for the next Jamboree.
C.) He's just being polite. He sends thank-you cards after being served subpoenas, too.
After a first date, he says he'll call. Will he?
A.) Yes, in fact he'll be calling you from his cell by the time you close your front door. Proceed to be creeped out.
B.) Probably, but not for a few weeks, mostly likely late on a Friday night. After a lengthy beer-bong session with the boys. Suggesting he come over to "reconnect."
C.) No.
After a few dates, he says he's not ready for a committed relationship. What does that really mean?
A.) Thanks, it was fun while it lasted.
B.) He likes you, but he likes being single, too. But, hey, maybe there's some sort of "understanding" you could come to?
C.) He's decided to try to make his marriage work after all.
You have been dating for several weeks, and there seems to be a deep connection. A.) He's waiting for the antibiotics to kick in.
B.) He's just a little shy and respectful of your boundaries. He may simply need a little nudge. Keep an eye out for the next Victoria's Secret sale.
C.) Watch a few "Will & Grace" reruns and it will become clear.
Hope that helps. Oh, the answers? Obviously, there are no answers that are correct all of the time.
We just wanted to wear a toga.
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I think this artical could use a little more help and insight. Many women want some kind of insight as far as the male mind goes. We want to know what men want. Just like men want to know what we want.
This artical was neither funny or helpful.
yes, the article was quite frustrating....
yeah we women might want to know what a guy is thinking or how their mind works but its almost impossible to ever find out, same as a male trying to find out what a women is thinking or how her mind works its almost a stupid topic to discuss because no one will ever know its a pointless topic
If you want to know how someone of the opposite sex feels about you just ask them. Say "I really like you. How do you feel about me?" You will be surprised by their response.
.......lol...I had to laugh at some of this....come on....you don't have a sense of humor here??
If you are a female and looking to date a male....you better bring that sense of humor along with you.....plus....most men don't know what they want....we often figure this out before they do.....cause we are smarter.....lol....just like a lot of men THINK they can cook.....lol....
...and THINK that they are good in bed.....lol....how many woman reading this have yet to achive an O--------- cause she has been with a guy who doesn't know what the bleep to do with a woman's body......lol.......ok enough said!!!! Got it now......
Useless. Like all the other articles purporting to tell you "What wo/men really think" No generalizations work here. We are all individuals. And it doesn't help *anyone* to perpetuate stereotypes that all men want is sex, and all women want is commitment. These articles only make things worse. Get a life, and ask people directly what they are thinking. The excuse that "you need a sense of humor" is equally lame. Many people have serious angst about this stuff.
Good luck all.
Please!!!! most of us divorced women know exactly what the man is thinking, we don't have to guess!! The problem is the majority of the US is single and like living the single life because they think it's fun! Men want to be wanted and needed just like women -- they just don't want to admit it. But if you are willing to be a "friend w/ benefits" then it's that much better for the man. Everyone needs to get a life and quit worrying about what the opposite sex is thinking!! Live right and have compassion for each other and it will all work out in the end. Sorry lady if you are with a man that doesn't know how to please you that's your fault for not speaking up!!
Everyone needs to learn to communicate, if they are married, dating or just friends, communication is always the key to a healthy relationship!
**Single too**
I disagree with #6 and #10, asking does not mean you will get the truth. Especially from men.
They will say or do whatever they think you expect. And as far as telling them how to please you. You had better get some pictures. Because they really do not like it when you try to explain. They think you are criticizing, which sets the natural Machismo in motion. And then you have a combustable situation. So naturally there is something wrong with you . And not them. Very few are really sensitive to the Womans Body language. And if you find one. You are blessed. They are few and far between. I have found that most of the Men on the personals just want to be players. One of my Female friends has a fellow communicating, and I had a theory. Sure enough, I got the exact same email from him after sending him a message. More than one. One of myemail Friends was doing the same.
So!!!! I think it is all a big game.
Pssstt...*nudge* you're #10...you disagreed with yourself at the very start.
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