Me.... Seeking a best friend first. I want someone to help me discover new places in the world & within myself with Christ at the helm. Someone who finds joy & goodness in people as they are, & doesn't feel the need to change them or try to shape them into a personal image of "perfection"!! You're perfect just the way you are! I'll really listen to you when you've had a hard day, hold you when you want a hug & give you room to be yourself. I believe the things we enjoy & find beauty in, define who & what we are. Some things I enjoy include: scuba, snorkel, family, friends & cookouts, being financially secure, picnics on a warm summer evening, reading by the fireplace, scratching the dog's ears, a Saturday afternoon at the movies, a soft knowing smile, long road trips, candles & a soaking tub, thunderstorms, fine dining, new snow on an evergreen, deep sea & river fishing, Europe, planting a new tree, the warm touch of soft skin, conversation both intellectual & chatter, the rustle of Aspen leaves in a high mountain meadow, happiness in someone else's eyes, Christmas, snuggling under a goose down comforter & my heart skipping a beat when the man I love walks in the room. Respect, loyalty & passion are required & gladly given. I fellowship & participate in my local community at the Calvary Chapel Aurora. My kids are grown with families of their own & am a granny of 5 little ones. Although I don't see them that often as they're in Europe (I'm from Switzerland but lived most of my adult life in South Africa) I love them to bits & make up for lost time when I do get back there! I have been told that I'm just about the easiest person to get along with around. If most of this fits what you want in your life we should talk....


You.... you are also seeking a best friend. You love your woman because you refuse to let your past experiences leave you embittered. You are confident and comfortable with yourself. The woman in your life does not define who you are but complements your life. You enjoy & find beauty in: your woman planting a new tree in the yard, your woman laughing, taking a tight mountain curve on the back of a Harley, a light touch on the arm, morning dew on a Columbine, talking or not & both feeling good, knowing you make your woman's heart smile, lunch/dinner under an umbrella, the smell of saltwater, fishing, snorkel, laughing when she's funny or just thinks she is, neck rubs, long walks, Christmas, trying something new, candles & a soaking tub, creativity in yourself & others, your heart skipping a beat when she walks in the room. You give respect, loyalty & passion & require them in return. Love well and often. Never go to bed angry, set your differences aside and make peace with your lover & best friend. If you are most of this, I want you in my life.... we should talk, not in here so let me know how to get in touch.

The Magic of Life is in the Moment. Maybe that's why they call it the Present......because it's a GIFT.